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Retirement & aging guides

Clear, honest guides for the decisions that come with getting older, whether it is for yourself, a partner, a parent or chosen family. We tell you where our information comes from and when we last checked it.

Choosing senior living

The Questions to Ask Before You Move In

Choosing senior living

The Questions to Ask Before You Move In

The questions that reveal whether a senior living community is genuinely affirming, not just polite on a tour. Bring this list, and write down who answers.

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Understanding the Levels of Senior Care

Choosing senior living

Understanding the Levels of Senior Care

Independent living, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, home care: what each one actually means, who it is for, what it costs, and how to tell which you need.

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Is It Time for Memory Care?

Choosing senior living

Is It Time for Memory Care?

Deciding when a loved one needs memory care is one of the hardest calls a family makes. Here are the honest signs, how to weigh the decision, and how to tour affirming memory care.

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How to Read Nursing-Home Ratings

Choosing senior living

How to Read Nursing-Home Ratings

Medicare's five-star ratings can help you compare nursing homes, but the stars only tell part of the story. Here is what each rating measures, where it falls short, and how to spot affirming care.

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Move or Stay Put? Weighing a Later-Life Move

Choosing senior living

Move or Stay Put? Weighing a Later-Life Move

Most older adults want to stay in their homes, yet sometimes a move brings more safety, connection or affirming community. Here is how to weigh the choice honestly.

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Touring a Senior Community: A Checklist

Choosing senior living

Touring a Senior Community: A Checklist

A polished tour can hide as much as it shows. Here is what to look for, the affirming signals that matter, the questions to ask, and the red flags to trust.

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