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Retirement & aging guides

Clear, honest guides for the decisions that come with getting older, whether it is for yourself, a partner, a parent or chosen family. We tell you where our information comes from and when we last checked it.

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How to Find LGBTQIA+-Affirming Home Care

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How to Find LGBTQIA+-Affirming Home Care

Home care lets many LGBTQIA+ elders age in their own homes, but it means inviting a caregiver into your private space. Here is how to find, vet and pay for affirming home care.

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How Much Does Memory Care Cost?

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How Much Does Memory Care Cost?

Memory care costs more than assisted living, but there is no single official national price. Here is what drives the cost, a realistic range, and how families pay for it.

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Adult Day Programs Explained

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Adult Day Programs Explained

Adult day programs give older adults connection and supervised support during the day, and give caregivers a real break. Here is what they offer, who they help, what they cost, and how to find affirming ones.

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Respite Care: Options for a Real Break

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Respite Care: Options for a Real Break

Every caregiver needs a break, and respite care exists to give you one. Here are the real options, in-home, day, and short-stay, plus how to find and pay for them.

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How to Hire and Manage an In-Home Caregiver

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How to Hire and Manage an In-Home Caregiver

Bringing a caregiver into your home is a big, personal decision. Here is how to choose between an agency and a private hire, screen well, and manage the relationship so it lasts.

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Board-and-Care Homes Explained

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Board-and-Care Homes Explained

Board-and-care homes are small residential homes, often just a handful of residents, that offer a quieter, more personal alternative to large assisted living. Here is how they work, what they cost, and how to vet one.

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How to Choose a Hospice Provider

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How to Choose a Hospice Provider

Choosing a hospice provider is one of the hardest and most important decisions a family makes. Here is what hospice really is, the questions that matter, and how to find affirming end-of-life care.

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Palliative Care Explained

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Palliative Care Explained

Palliative care is comfort-focused support for anyone living with a serious illness, and it can begin far earlier than most people think. Here is what it is, how it differs from hospice, and how to access it.

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Downsizing and Senior Move Managers

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Downsizing and Senior Move Managers

Downsizing a home of many years is as much emotional as it is physical. Here is how the process works, why it feels so hard, and when hiring help is worth it.

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